"If you are asked to choose who to die first, will you choose your wife or you?"








What do you say to this? A man was asked this question “If you are asked to choose who to die first, will you choose your wife or you? “The man’s response was surprising. He said he will ask to die first. His explanation was that his wife will be in the best position to care for the children because she already does so many things he is not able to do.

According to him, if he is left alone with the children, he will be forced to remarry which may expose his children to stepmother “drama”. However, he said on the other hand his wife would never remarry because most men do not want a mother with children as a wife.

#2. Can you rationalize this issue this way

Secondly, he said his wife would hesitate to expose his children to another father and would give her all to make sure the child

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  1. It is sad to find that male children are still placed over female children. A few weeks ago, a friend lost her dad. She is the most successful and oldest among her siblings financially. However, her younger brother who does not understand his left from his right is assigned the responsibility of making all decisions for their dad's funeral. She spends the money and he takes the credit! According to the family, that is what the culture dictates in Africa! Don't get me wrong. Africa is not the only place this happens. Let us wake up and begin to change all this. What if the man never had a son?

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